Like women, men also carry some secrets with them that are still unknown to many people. There is a saying, “most difficult thing in this world is to understand a woman”. Instead, the saying should be “men are the most unpredictable species on earth”. Women are the most simple as they do not gamble upon their words, they are what they are, whether they are with their parents, boyfriend or friends they will be the same. Unlike men, they are different in front of their parents, a new version of them is seen in front of their girlfriends and the rarest version of them is encountered when they are with their friends. Men generally refer themselves as the “open book” but they have a lot of secrets that the women are generally unaware of. Following are some secrets listed that men do not want women to know-
Secret 1 : Men do not want to be seen naked after a cold shower-
Yes, a man will surely want to enjoy a shower with his lady love. Many man usually dream of bathing with their partner as they think that this deepends their bond. When a person sleeps, his sub-conscious mind becomes more active while the conscious mind remains inactive. Those unattended desires and thoughts that do not find its way out during the sex act become more realistic in this sleepy position They think woman would think that there is something wrong down there. Therefore, they never want their genitals to be exposed after a cold shower.
Secret 2 : Why do some guys remember dates?
Most men generally do not remember the special dates but many men do remember such dates. Unlike, women they would remember every single date and detail. When you first shared glance, when you first made eye contact with each other, when was the first time that you texted her, when did you called for the first and many other first times, that happened between you. But if men do remember some of the special dates like anniversary or partner’s birthday, it’s not because this is special occasion but because they fear the storm that would prevail afterwards. This fear makes him remember the day. Men generally add reminders and sticky notes to avoid the tantrums that his lady would throw on him if he forgets their anniversary or her birthday.
Secret 3 : He does not want to listen about your male friend-
Although most men behave very cool with their girl being friend with other guys but as the proverb goes – “all that glitters is not gold”. Men would behave that they would not mind if their girls would hang up with their male friends but inside they would be fuming on the fact that you gave his time to that friend of yours. Men wants that their girl’s attention should not be divided and the focus should just be over them. They are usually envy of their girl’s male friend but would never expose this feeling. Doing so will make them un-cool and oldie types and they would never want their image to be diminished in front of their partner.
Secret 4 : Men wish for sex earlier in the relationship-
It is often said that men just wish for sex more than the relationship. When it comes to loyalty men are rated very low in this context as it is believed that they just lust for the body of the woman and not her. But this does not go for every person. Men do long for a relationship but they want sex earlier in the relationship as compared to women. Men are assumed to be the mindless sex – craze machines, this is not true always. They also wish for the care, the affection and love from their partners and not just the sex.
Secret 5 : Man sometimes wants his woman to lead in the bed-
Men enjoy women attacking them and dragging them to bed. They would love to see their woman taking lead in the bed and driving them crazy. However, it is always that a man conquers the sexual activity but sometimes he wants his lady to express her desires by starting off first. In general all women want their men to initiate. She thinks that men initiating for sex shows that she is desirable in his eyes. Most of the women never start off first because of the fear of being called slut according to the norms of the society. How can being sexually expressive to the one who you love be so wrong that people remarks you as a “slut”. Regardless of these stereotypes, men do want their women to ignite the spark and be a leader in bed.
Secret 6 : Men often wonders about silly things-
We usually ask a man sitting idle lost in the thoughts, “What are you thinking”? Answer always is – “nothing”, that’s true but not literally. They are mostly lost in the thoughts of silly things like – who would win the fight if spiderman and superman were made to fight? Who is better spiderman or superman? etc., etc. To avoid the feeling of embarrassment that they would feel when their woman would laugh upon them, after revealing their thoughts they just reply – “nothing”.
Secret 7 : Men likes and wants to be complimented-
It is often believed that women are the ones that love to be complimented. Same goes with the men they would cherish every single word of appreciation till the day they will die, especially when it comes from the person they love. Men usually regard you as beautiful, hot, pretty and what not but it is not always his duty to praise you, compliment you, you should also make some efforts to praise him in different ways. Men like to be complimented not only about their looks but also about how they make you feel. They would increase their efforts for their women when they are praised.
Secret 8 : Men are not at all good “people readers”
Men are generally less intuitive and less socially active as compared to women. Women are born experts in the field of reading people and communicating with them, while men aren’t blessed with this quality. They are comparatively less socially adept and are very weak “people readers”.
Secret 9 : Hair-
Men are very conscious about the hair on the body as well as on the head. Little amount of hair on the body makes him worried and think what if I do not look macho enough. Too much hair on the body makes him embarrassed and he becomes very conscious thinking that it looks scary and very messy. Seeing them getting bald day by day and not able to do anything in this regard is like a nightmare for them. Some men tend to lose their self confidence when their hair starts disappearing.
Secret 10 : “Don’t cry you are a man”
Since childhood poor men are refrained from crying. “Men do not cry” – this stereotype exists from ages and prevails everywhere in this world. Their parents believe that they should be strong as they have to protect their families, but that does not make any sense as there is no relationship between being strong and not crying. They are also human beings and have feelings in them. In everybody’s life there comes a point where you burst into tears. After all the debate men do not want to look weak and therefore hides their tears, men do cry!!!
Secret 11 : Guys do check out other girls-
Ladies, if you think that your man never look at other girls then sorry to disappoint, these men do checkout almost every girl. Your man would surely love you immensely and would always praise your beauty, no doubt, but that does not mean that he would never look on other girls now that’s a myth. Even if they themselves tell you that they do not look at other girls, never believe them. Maybe every man is habitual of gazing like that!!!
Secret 12 : Men also diet-
Yes! Man also diet but they would never admit this fact publically. Like every woman is worried about her figure men also are very conscious about their physique. Men hate even that slight tummy peeping out from their shirt. It is a fact that men do dieting more seriously than any woman could do.
Secret 13 : Men are not always ready for sex-
This secret is rarely known by people. Many men sometimes would not want any physical relation but when their partner would urge for it they would never deny. Women rarely insist for having sex but when they do men never deny even if they aren’t ready. Men never want this secret to be revealed ever.
Secret 14 : Every man do not have the same taste-
What might appear beautiful and attractive to a man might not at all be attractive to another man. Every man’s quotient to define what they look in for women is diversely different. Some would fall for her eyes, other would love her hair and many would love her because of the person she is. Men’s taste does not define other women it’s just about their taste. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.
Secret 15 : Providing for family-
When it comes to the family men always keep their brave front. They would sacrifice each and every wish of theirs but would never want their family to suppress their desires. They would never let you know about their desires. Even if he is capable of fulfilling desires of each family member then also, deep inside, he would feel that he cannot do enough for his family. Men’s love for their family is very selfless.